You want a guy who honors you, but that isn’t possible if you don’t honor yourself.
So how do you know if you have baggage? Hmm, let me think. Is there an overwhelming need to search his phone? Pick fights just so that you can make up? Always comparing him to your ex? Fear upsetting him because he may lash out? Think a tracker for his dick’s whereabouts is a great idea?
You don’t need to offer your body in exchange for a man to give you interest or time.
Keep your standards as they are. This isn’t a negotiation or a going out of business sale!